I remember talking to an acquaintance, a friend of my husband’s, after our second 2nd trimester loss. I mentioned something about preferring this hospital over the one where we delivered our first still child, and she snapped her head up at me, gobsmacked.
“Hospital?” She was fully confused. “What do you mean?”
That was when I realized why so many people have a hard time ‘getting’ the grief that follows pregnancy loss.
They don’t ‘get’ the pregnancy loss in the first place.